First of all, most of you are wondering what the heck a “Thundercat” is. Actually, it’s a who, who happens to be notorious in the Seduction Community. If you’ve read THE GAME by Neil Strauss, he’s mentioned in there. He’s also a savvy businessman, who identified a “niche”: how to approach and easily seduce women.
There’s a raft of stuff on how to become a monster pickup artist (PUA), but precious little on the simple art of approaching. So that’s what he wrote – THE ART OF APPROACHING. Most guys who’ve gobbled up all the seduction material they can get their hands on still don’t get out there and approach women. It’s not funny. They “know” all the facts, but take no action.
THE ART OF APPROACHING takes that inertia (okay, fear) into account. If you, like me, have been rejected more than accepted, you know what I’m talking about. She may look good, she may even look willing, but you just can’t get it going. Even worse, you beat yourself up over it.
There’s no need to do that. There are simple, effective ways of moving past the past (if you’ll forgive a little process language). The steps you take will allow you to move forward as if there was no problem in the first place. I’m not going to “give away the store”, here. Thundercat does a pretty effective job of doing that himself!
Here's a quote from THE ART OF APPROACHING:"You need to make yourself believe that you can achieve your goal of getting a beautiful woman that will suit what you’re looking for. And you have to believe that she will want you as much as you want her! Otherwise, you’re in for a lonely, lonely lifetime."
You'll also get tips on the best venues for finding those women, aside from a noisy, crowded bar or club. The key is to figure out which type of woman you're most attracted to in the first place. Once you've "typecast" her, you're less likely to be distracted by those that don't fit your type.
There's a free, seven lesson mini-course waiting for you. Find the link and click it. After all, you'd really like to be able to easily seduce the women you really want. Take the next step now.
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Showing posts with label woman. Show all posts
Wednesday
No Idea How To Really Seduce The Woman You Want?
Most guys are at a loss when it comes to the woman they really want. “Seduce” is a nice idea, but what does that really mean? Can they really seduce the woman they want without scamming her? How about “buyer’s remorse”, either yours or hers? What about learning to seduce more than one woman at a time? Is that really possible?
It’s just a question of experience. If you have no real experience with the mechanics of meeting really desirable women (the ones you actually want for yourself, not the ones your buddies want), you’re going to be as stuck as a kid in algebra with a pop quiz in front of him he never studied for. Trust me, you can’t just do the instinctive thing and get it right the first time. More often than not, the instinctive thing is the WRONG THING.
Sure, we’re susceptible to instinctive behavior, but most of us have screwed up our instincts with social programming, bad advice from others, negative attitudes from rejection, etc. “Just be yourself” is bad advice if you’re having an identity crisis, right? It’s the same for when you actually seduce the woman you really want.
You may not want to hear this, but you need to do field work. You have to get up, massage the waffle print off your butt from sitting at the computer and go talk to some women. More importantly, you have to have an outcome in mind, a specific outcome. Only you know where you are on the path to learning all the steps. There’s plenty of information available on what they are, when to take them, how to move along to the next step and close the deal.
Wander on over to FastSeduction.com and start your research. Click the link youarenew, if you are new (and very literal-minded). Read through the forums and LURK before you post. Nothing like a newbie posting exuberently his first day there and getting slammed for stating the obvious. Search the archives using keywords for your interests. You can also search by poster. I know I'm in there!
It’s up to you to take the action.
It’s just a question of experience. If you have no real experience with the mechanics of meeting really desirable women (the ones you actually want for yourself, not the ones your buddies want), you’re going to be as stuck as a kid in algebra with a pop quiz in front of him he never studied for. Trust me, you can’t just do the instinctive thing and get it right the first time. More often than not, the instinctive thing is the WRONG THING.
Sure, we’re susceptible to instinctive behavior, but most of us have screwed up our instincts with social programming, bad advice from others, negative attitudes from rejection, etc. “Just be yourself” is bad advice if you’re having an identity crisis, right? It’s the same for when you actually seduce the woman you really want.
You may not want to hear this, but you need to do field work. You have to get up, massage the waffle print off your butt from sitting at the computer and go talk to some women. More importantly, you have to have an outcome in mind, a specific outcome. Only you know where you are on the path to learning all the steps. There’s plenty of information available on what they are, when to take them, how to move along to the next step and close the deal.
Wander on over to FastSeduction.com and start your research. Click the link youarenew, if you are new (and very literal-minded). Read through the forums and LURK before you post. Nothing like a newbie posting exuberently his first day there and getting slammed for stating the obvious. Search the archives using keywords for your interests. You can also search by poster. I know I'm in there!
It’s up to you to take the action.
Tuesday
How to Pick Up a Woman
If you’ve ever been to FastSeduction.com, you may have seen posts by Vince Runza. You may have even seen him moderating the chat room. Yes, I’m THAT Vince Runza. What, you don’t recognize the hat?!!!
I’ve been an active part of the Community since 1999. I’ve winged with a guy who gave me a rave review in his field report (schematic – You girls have NO IDEA., 2004/01/04) and received countless thanks from guys who’ve gotten something of real value from me when they asked “how to” questions on the forums.
I’ve also gotten into a “frank and businesslike discussion” (that means if we were in the same room together, we’d have been throwing ashtrays at each other) with Gunwitch about his original Method. I basically accused him of promoting “Macking” – picking up a woman by intimidation or sheer force of personality ("Ug! Me Gunwitch! Me teach you How To Pick Up Woman!") He accused me of not reading for content. He was right, I was wrong. It’s this kind of mistake that keeps me humble (har, har)!
No matter what you use as a system, you need to have a couple of things in place first:
More later.
I’ve been an active part of the Community since 1999. I’ve winged with a guy who gave me a rave review in his field report (schematic – You girls have NO IDEA., 2004/01/04) and received countless thanks from guys who’ve gotten something of real value from me when they asked “how to” questions on the forums.
I’ve also gotten into a “frank and businesslike discussion” (that means if we were in the same room together, we’d have been throwing ashtrays at each other) with Gunwitch about his original Method. I basically accused him of promoting “Macking” – picking up a woman by intimidation or sheer force of personality ("Ug! Me Gunwitch! Me teach you How To Pick Up Woman!") He accused me of not reading for content. He was right, I was wrong. It’s this kind of mistake that keeps me humble (har, har)!
No matter what you use as a system, you need to have a couple of things in place first:
- Get your head screwed on straight.
- It’s YOUR reality. Own it.
More later.
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