I’ve been an active part of the Community since 1999. I’ve winged with a guy who gave me a rave review in his field report (schematic – You girls have NO IDEA., 2004/01/04) and received countless thanks from guys who’ve gotten something of real value from me when they asked “how to” questions on the forums.
I’ve also gotten into a “frank and businesslike discussion” (that means if we were in the same room together, we’d have been throwing ashtrays at each other) with Gunwitch about his original Method. I basically accused him of promoting “Macking” – picking up a woman by intimidation or sheer force of personality ("Ug! Me Gunwitch! Me teach you How To Pick Up Woman!") He accused me of not reading for content. He was right, I was wrong. It’s this kind of mistake that keeps me humble (har, har)!
No matter what you use as a system, you need to have a couple of things in place first:
- Get your head screwed on straight.
- It’s YOUR reality. Own it.
More later.
