Ok, guys, enough of this 'paralysis of analysis' crap! Here's how to overpower your fear by taking some action WITH PURPOSE.
In essence, you should use the mall not only for building your skills but getting LAID. Here is where you're likely to find women in search of 'something'. Try this opener (courtesy Mystery): "What are you looking for?" She'll either tell you or give you, "Huh? What?" Now say, "Everybody's looking for something -- unless you've FOUND IT!" Since you're standing right in front of her, you can follow up with, "Are you seeing anyone special right now?" Get it? That someone could be YOU!
As many before you have found, the FOOD COURT is probably the best place to approach women. They're eating, their blood sugar is elevated, they're feeling good = shields down. Be friendly, funny, relaxed - experiment with different ways of doing this. Above all, REFUSE TO TAKE YOURSELF OR YOUR APPROACHES SERIOUSLY. Get out of your own way - this is not life or death, it's just play with a purpose.
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